Sometimes when you look at things differently , turning them upside down you can see them clearly. You can often wish for things to be want you want them to be but wishing them to be never really works except in fairy tales.
You can make things happen for yourself. You cannot make things happen for others. You can influence them but they have their own free will. They make the decision in the end. Whether in a work decision or whether in love, it is the same.
So I find that anytime that I get caught up in the emotion of things, I simply turn my reflections upside down or in simple terms – look at things from a different perspective. There is often times clarity.
Just a thought I wanted to share.